Male Grooming (Manscaping)
 
 
   

 

Just as personal grooming is extremely important in your everyday personal life, it is also the case in terms of successfully implementing your SexSkit. The entire basis of sexual role-play is you and your partner's attempt to pretend that you are somebody else, and that you are with somebody else. Typically, you and your partner are very much aware of each other's appearance, your individual scents, grooming habits, and manner of dress. While one's manner of dress may be significantly altered by the use of costumes for the SexSkit, all other aspects would remain the same unless you take discernable steps to make those alterations, and actively create the illusion for one another that you are both someone else and that this tryst is a new experience for the both of you with each other.

The following are a series of recommendations that you may employ to change many if not all of these attrributes to successfully adopt a different look matching the character of your SexSkit. Remember, the ultimate goal is to make an appearance for your partner where they may reasonably pretend without too much effort that you are someone else entirely. A positive side effect is that with this different look, you too may more easily slip into character, and make the execution of your SexSkit powerfully stimulating and exciting.

Hair
Try a haircut, or re-styling it in a manner that fits the period or the look that you would like to achieve.
Change the color. many stores sell wash out hair dyes that will work perfectly for this purpose.
Buy a wig in the color and style that you are attempting to achieve.
Cologne
Use a different cologne to change your scent.
Use cologne or body spray on secret areas of your body.
Jewelry & Body Decorations
Wear a wedding ring or a ring that resembles one should the SexSkit call for it.
Wear a watch.
Wear necklaces if the character calls for it.
Wear reading glasses with a low magnification. Many styles are available at your local drug store.
Wear temporary tatoos in surprising locations.
Get you ear or another intimate body part pierced and wear a small diamond stud or other type of pierced jewelry.
Wear a metallic "cockring"
Body Hair
Groom your eyebrows. Many drug stores carry small personal groomers for this purpose.
Shave your face, chest, back and or stomach if your character calls for this type of look.
Don't shave legs, thighs, armpits and or stomach to create the look that your character calls for.
Shave your scrotum and the base of your penis.
Use wash out hair dyes to change the color of your eyebrows and or pubic hair.
Trim your pubic hair. Try using a small cookie cutter, such as a heart shape, as a template to achieve a shaped look. Do this only if you are not going to be seen naked by other men at the gym or work.
Trim your pubic hair into a small "landing strip".
Completely shave your pubic hair. Only you and your partner will ever know!
Wear a fake mustache.
Bathing
Take a shower or long hot bath. Wash your entire body and use lotion or bath oil so that your skin is silky smooth and fragrant.
Wash and blow dry your hair.
Finger & Toe Nails
Trim and file your finger and toe nails. Make sure your fingernails are short so that you never injure your partner's sensitive areas.
Get a manicure and a pedicure.
Personal Hygeine
Brush and floss your teeth. Use mouthwash, and have breath mints available.
Trim nose and ear hairs.
Use deodorant or anti-perspirant.
Avoid "gassy" foods.
General Appearance
Join a gym and/or establish a workout routine designed to shape-up and sculpt your body.
Use instant tanners or use a tanning salon to bronze your skin to the shade you are looking for.
A bit dramatic, but some may wish to pursue elective plastic surgery to correct flaws or enhance other attributes.
Groom yourself appropriately according to the character you will assume and the costume that you will be wearing in your SexSkit.