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Character Development
Perhaps the most difficult task in executing your SexSkit with your lover will be your individual efforts at character development. Let's face it, no one wants to make a fool of themselves, not in public, and especially not in front of your partner in the moments preceding a seriously intimate evening. Because most people are not trained thespians, it is inevitable that we are going to flub our lines here and there. Watch any movie that includes the hilarious outtakes during the final credits, and you will see that even those who we've come to admire for their acting prowess screw up take after take before getting it right. Unfortunately for us, we only get one take in order to make it seem as realistic as possible for our lover and for ourselves. That is why both you and your partner need to review the scripted lines and the character descriptions several times before initiating your SexSkit. Each participant should take a few days getting used to the character.
Picture yourself and your lover in the costumes and accessories that you plan to wear on the evening of your big performance. Memorize as best as you can, both your lines and the preferred response from your partner. Play the scenes over and over in your head, but do not be surprised if things take a turn that you hadn't expected. Improvisation in the performance of the SexSkit is perfectly fine, and should add to the excitement in the moment. Try to imagine the setting and the scene that you will develop for your SexSkit. Imagine the sights, the sounds and the smells that you and your partner will experience. Imagine your perfume or cologne, and that of your partner. Now, rehearse your lines, pausing for your partner's response. Imagine acting your role, right up to the sexual acts that you and your partner will perform on each other and together.
Developing your character for your SexSkit is crucial to executing the SexSkit as it was intended. No two couples, even if they follow the script verbatim, will conduct the SexSkit in an identical manner. This is a golden opportunity for you to become the fantasy lover for your partner, and they become that which you secretly desire as well. It is an opportunity for you to explore your sexual desires, fantasies, kinks, and fetishes together, without consequence or feelings of guilt. It is not really you that they are with, but someone else, entirely from their deepest, darkest fantasies, and vice versa. It is an opportunity for each member of a committed couple to "cheat" without actually committing adultery. It is an opportunity for each to experience the exquisite pleasure with a total stranger, someone quite different from you. It is an opportunity to have sex with someone who is quite too young for you, of course without ever coming close to breaking the law. It is an opportunity to assume a totally different personna than the one you live with each day of your life. Take this opportunity to become the secret lover of your partner's fantasies. Immerse yourself over the course of several days in this new personna and become one with it. Prepare yourself to shock your lover, and yourself, with your new-found inner strength, desire and lust. All it takes is committment to the character that you will develop with a few subtle hints from the SexSkit.
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